Are you dating a hot guy who is shorter than you? Actually, these days more and more women are quite tall, so some guys can be shorter than them. That’s very normal. So, if you are planning on kissing a guy shorter than you, here is how!
- Don’t wear high heels.
When you go out with a guy who is shorter than you, you’d better avoid wearing high heels. A female friend of mine is a model who met a handsome guy at a party. She literally took off her shoes and left the venue with that guy – she didn’t want him to leave her because of her height.
Therefore, if you are a tall woman and you know the guy you are dating is shorter than you, you would be well-advised to avoid high heels when you are going out with him. In this way, you can feel more comfortable while wearing comfortable shoes, and you don’t need to worry about intimidating him due to your height.
I understand that not wearing high heels can be annoying sometimes because you feel more confident when you are wearing high heels. Also, some clothes are supposed to match high heels in order to make the outfit work. Having said that, I’m pretty sure there are ways that allow you to dress up really well without wearing high heels.
For instance, you can wear a high-quality dress or jacket, meaning the item that occupies the largest percentage of your body should be amazing. Then your shoes won’t be the center of the attention.
Of course, you don’t have to break the bank in order to dress well. As a matter of fact, you can go to H&M and buy some wonderful clothes at lower prices.
- Kiss him when you two are sitting down.
Don’t kiss him when you two are standing because he is obviously shorter than you. Instead, kiss him when you two are sitting down somewhere. In this way, the height difference isn’t obvious anymore.
For example, you can kiss him when you are sitting on the couch with him. It should be a relaxing environment, i.e. an artistic café or in your/his house.
As you are talking to him, just slow down. And then look at him while getting closer to him physically. Move your face towards his face.
Gradually, he will feel the sexual tension, and he will probably want to kiss you.
If he still hasn’t kissed you, you can playfully touch his lips while telling him a joke. This shows you are a spontaneous and adventurous woman.
He will be aroused if your nails are beautifully painted (think pink or purple nails). Because you touched his lips spontaneously, he is very likely to kiss you.
- You can kiss him first.
Even if he is very shy and hasn’t kissed you yet, it’s okay for you to kiss him first. In fact, many men secretly hope their women can be more proactive in this regard. So, why not surprise him with a kiss?
You may use some tools to help you with this, e.g. play some background music which happens to be a song about kisses – Casablanca, Sealed with a Kiss, etc. Then you say this to him, “Wow. I feel so inspired by the lyrics of this song.” That becomes your excuse to kiss him first.